Do Women Like to Pull Dick All the Way Out Then Put Back in

Woman-on-top (aka 'Cowgirl', or 'The Rider') is a great sex position if you're a woman or have a vagina and are sleeping with a man or someone with a penis (or someone who likes wearing a strap-on). As most women and vagina-owners can't orgasm just via penetration, this move is amazing for giving you the opportunity to get some extra stimulation either through grinding your clitoris as you ride, or stimulating your clit with your fingers/a partner's fingers/a vibrator.

For anyone that's a bit more self-conscious it can be hard to know exactly what to do when you're up there. Obviously, do what feels best for you. But it's important to keep in mind that the best sex happens when both partners are having the time of their lives. Here, some men from Reddit share their tips for how to ride dick in a way that's fun for all parties. If you're ever in doubt, try the golden rule: honesty and communication is the best policy.

Woman on top tips - How to ride dick, according to men

1."Personally, I like when she gets on top and tries her best to make herself cum. It gets me so turned on to see her take command of her own orgasmic destiny. This is also the most common way for my wife and I to cum together." [via]

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2."Don't bounce too high... speed isn't always the best. Going slow. Also, getting the right angle is important. Definitely ask which angle feels the best." [via]

3."Use my chest for leverage." [via]

4."Use your hips, not your legs. Also, getting into a squat, on your hands and feet, that's extremely hot. And don't forget to lean in and kiss us every now and then." [via]

5."This might be overly general advice, because it goes for everyone in most sex positions, but keep an eye on [your partner's] reactions to what you're doing. Both noises and facial expressions. If a particular speed, rhythm or angle is really working for them you should be able to see it in their face and possibly hear it." [via]

6."Press their hands to your boobs while grinding them. It's really hot!" [via]

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7."While it feels really good for you to just grind your hips on them while they're inside, they generally need some extra movement to build though friction for them to get off. Also, the further you bounce up the higher the risk you bend the penis wrong and kill the erection." [via]

8."No matter what you think you look like, you don't need to be self conscious. We are loving it, and we think you look hot as hell." [via]

9."Don't be self-conscious on what you look like, but seeing you grind and moan is really hot. We love that shit. Speaking of grinding, I love it when she grinds on my dick more so than thrusting." [via]

10."Focus on getting yourself off. We're just glad to be there." [via]

11."Don't be afraid to be a little selfish when you're on top. This is a position where you have more control. Use it to your advantage. If you want them to feel good, put a little vertical movement to it and allow their hands to roam." [via]

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12."If you are riding someone, don't try to lift off so far that just the tip is in you. In my experience it is really hard to maintain that stopping point when both y'all really get into it. Try to just lift off half his length in your enthusiasm you'll probably get most of the way off him but the chance of going too far is reduced." [via]

13."Your best bet is: communicate better about what you both want." [via]

14."The best cowgirl I've ever had came from a girl who could salsa. The best feeling comes from amazing hip control. Smooth, powerful, rhythmic movements." [via]

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15."Get on. Close your eyes if you need to, just lose yourself, vibrate back and forth as I guide your hips, and gush all over my cock. Also, if you are really struggling with manoeuvrability issues during your first times together, reverse cowgirl is a great interim step, both physically and psychologically since eye contact isn't a factor." [via]

16."You should also be honest with each other and not just yourself. Switching positions if you're getting tired is better than carrying on until you literally can't do it anymore and it just becomes a pathetic attempt to get to the finish line that fails miserably. We go from cowgirl, to missionary, to sitting and back to cowgirl for the big finish. If you need a break, take one." [via]

17."If it's uncomfortable or awkward for you chances are they're not enjoying it. 50% of my pleasure comes from knowing my wife is having a good time and it's easy to pick up when your partner isn't enjoying it." [via]

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Do Women Like to Pull Dick All the Way Out Then Put Back in

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